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  1. The importance of being selfish


    December 22, 2013 by Zara


    This is perhaps a misleading title. The word self-care might be more appropriate, and it’s fortunately one that’s more and …
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  2. On relating, and the uniqueness of every relationship


    December 18, 2013 by Zara


    Year-end reflecting on my relationships. I am an extremely easy and difficult woman to be with. My ex-husband loved how …
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  3. Why I Decided to Become Poly


    March 17, 2013 by Zara


    One day, I experienced jealousy. That was another life; when I was married and fully bought into the monogamous ideal.┬áMinor, …
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  4. Some (Radical?) Thoughts On Work, Love and Marriage


    December 16, 2012 by Zara

    I write this sparked by a talk by Alain de Botton on “The Pleasures and Sorrows of Work”, which somehow …
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  5. Protected: Here’s me, coming out of my cave

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    December 9, 2012 by Zara

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  6. An unexpected encounter: crazy, beautiful, scary


    December 8, 2012 by Zara

    Little did I imagine that random (well, perhaps not so random) exploration on Blendr would lead to this. I never …
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  7. Let’s Talk Love, Sex and Promiscuity


    November 27, 2012 by Zara

    In August 2012, I gave a talk at Philorum about non-exclusivity in relationships and the appeals of an alternative to …
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  8. Coming out on polysexuality


    July 14, 2012 by Zara

    So I’ve committed to presenting on the subject of polyamory! Or more broadly polysexuality. It feels somewhat like ‘coming out’?! …
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